Instant Messenger

A Guide for Parents

• Each IM program asks you to create a screen name, which is similar to an e-mail address. Your screen name should not provide or allude to personal information. For example, use a nickname such as SoccerFan instead of BaltimoreJenny.
• Do not list your screen name or e-mail address in public areas (such as large Internet directories or online community profiles) or give them to strangers.
• Never provide sensitive personal information, such as your credit card numbers or passwords, in an IM conversation.
• Only communicate with people who are on your contact or buddy lists. Before adding new buddies ask your parents.
• Do not meet a stranger that you know only from IM communication.
• Never open pictures, download files, or click links in messages from people you don’t know.
• If you use a public computer, do not select the feature that allows you to log on automatically. People who use that computer after you may be able to see and use your screen name to log on.
• Monitor and limit your children's use of IM. One way to do this is to sign up for the MSN Premium IM service that enables you approve all of your child's contacts before she can receive instant messages from those contacts. You'll also get a report of your child's online activities.
  
  Sources:microsoft.com, aim.com